The fight for closure is hard. For years, I concentrated solely on gaining closure for my terrible experiences, but it will never be enough.
There is no definitive finish, so you must keep going and live your life.I wish I knew how many bullies and abusers are jealous of their victims! My life has been easy to bull
. I've been a victim often. I never fought back because I thought I deserved it because I would never treat someone this way unless they did something bad. I didn't recognize until my 30s that thoe
I tried too hard for too long to salvage, create, or endure relationships with certain immediate family members because I felt bound to them by ‘family loyalty,’ which meant that while I
Not because I was bad or inadequate, actually! We are all responsible for our own actions, including learning to stand up for ourselves. We cannot prevent or cause abusers or bullies
I tried too hard for too long to salvage, create, or endure relationships with certain immediate family members because I felt bound to them by ‘family loyalty,’ which meant that while
Your family might always be your family, that doesn't mean you have to be family with your family,’ and I realized the truth and felt allowed to cut off some truly awful, toxic relatives from my life.